A – Abstinence
Although the emphasis for STOP is on the sexually active population STOP also encourages abstinence as a prevention measure. Abstinence is 100% effective in preventing HIV from the major way in which it is contracted.
To avoid contracting HIV and for health and safety reasons, you are entitled to Abstain. There’s nothing weird or “uptight” with choosing abstinence – It’s about what works for you. If you are in a relationship, it is important to discuss with your partner what abstinence means to you. Talk about HIV and HIV prevention as well as acceptable expressions of sexuality such as holding hands, cuddling, kissing etc.
There are many adults that choose to abstain and it is not just confined to young kids. When in doubt abstain. You don’t trust your partner. You are not free in your relationship if you are unable to talk to your partner and resolve issues.
You are oppressed if you cannot put matters on the table with your partner.